Ada yang bilang gini padaku (lebih dari 1 orang), kira-kira kalo dirangkum :
“My time is ticking, jika kamu sudah lebih dewasa dan berumur, maka kamu akan mengerti bahwa pernikahan itu lebih realistis dan tidak hanya berdasar pada CINTA semata. Jika secara realistis tidak dapat diteruskan karena adanya suatu kendala, maka mungkin bukan jodoh”
Well,… hm
I don’t understand.
I really don’t.
Call me childish, or stupid maybe.
But if you love someone that much and that person love you back, won’t you fight anything to be with her/him?
What do you think?
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November 16, 2007 at 10:48 am
venny
yup!! i definitely agree with u… i dont understand either…
mana bisa married if there’s no LOVE???
and the problem is… people usually think of their age all the time. baru umur 25 ke atas aja uda pada panic utk ketemu jodoh. takut ga menikah lah. bla bla bla… pliss deh… jgn sok tua gitu. apa gunanya menikah krn uda kebeban umur pdhl kita blum yakin?
jadi inget kalo someone pnah bilang gini juga ke aku ‘ven, i’m not as young as you anymore…’
sebenernya aku pengen jwb ’so what?’… at that time i answered ‘kalo begitu jgn cari cewe utk jadiin pacar, langsung nikah aja’…
thats why, sometimes i hate being adult and adults people. dont know what they have on their mind. why they have to make something complicated while its actually so simple?
look at my sister, she is 25 and she doesnt have boyfriend. other people were keep asking when she gonna get married. tapi dia nyantai2 aja tuh. dan dia ga berusaha utk ngebet cr pacar tuh. two thumbs up for my sis…
just enjoy ur life yah… Love and Marriage is not bounded by AGE!!! when u met the right person and the right time have come… wedding will be the most beautiful thing…
November 17, 2007 at 11:47 am
hellochs
Hm…. Career never cheating on you. haha
Aku kasih perhatian penuh ke pekerjaan aja deh, begitu muncul orang yang benar2 mencintai aku baru aku akan mulai pertimbangkan mengenai pernikahan.
Pada dasarnya aku pengen menikah dengan “cinta”. Tp faktor2 lain kayak keluarga jg gak bs disepelehkan.. misalnya calon ibu mertua ternyata galak n minta tinggal bareng setelah menikah.. duh, gak deh. => kecuali sang suami mao memperjuangkan cinta.
hm… jd kesimpulannya ya pengen menikah dengan orang yang mencintai aku n yang aku cintai. ♡
November 21, 2007 at 10:02 am
nanang
hahaha this is indo mannnn.. married bukan sama orangnya.. tapi plus keluarganya.. plus keluarga besarnya.. huehehe.. hayulu wuriiiii.. btw, glad to see u again the other day.. and u have to eat A LOTTTTTTTTT.. keliatan kurus banget.. get well soon!!